No pressure.. Really ?

Boy : Marry me? 
Girl : Well, this is all so sudden, i need some time to think it over.
Boy : Hey, hey, don't worry. NO PRESSURE. I'LL WAIT FOR YOU AS LONG AS YOU WANT.

AS IF THERE WON'T BE ANY PRESSURE AFTER THE I'LL-WAIT-FOR YOU CRAP!
Yes, you say that there won't be any pressure but then knowing that you'll be waiting, IT GIVES A HELL LOT OF PRESSURE. Who would take their time, really take their time to think, consider all of the options and possibilities with peace of mind when they know that there is someone out there, waiting and hoping to be with you. No one could really do that unless you're a heartless evil jackass. So come on, if you don't wanna put pressure on that particular person, don't say that ! I know you people are eager but i haven't came up with something perfectly suitable to say in that sorta situation so before i do, you can try saying ~

1. Sure thing sweets. Take all the time you need.
2. Don't worry about it. What's important is you take your time.
3. Okay, i want you to relax and think about the future, YOUR future before you decide.

There ya go. You've got 3 options to twist and turn about. All better that the i'll-wait-for-you bugger.

Inez.

 

Cheers to all the seventeens out there!

The VIPs of my life.

Inez.

Tyler's Birthday at Monte's !

Phew ~ Finally a post with pictures ! We went to Monte's to celebrate Tyler's birthday :)

The food is darn good ! I strongly recommend Monte's ! ;)

 This is the cake KarYee *with Amanda's help* baked for Tyler. See the initial ;)

 Tyler giving a toast.

 Bottoms up !

 The boys flexing their biceps *rolls eyes

 This is what happens when you man up and down a mug full of beer with an empty stomach.

*Bored face

Inez.

The Power Of Words

When I was younger, I would always lose quarreling with my sister. She's the one with the good vocab and strong disputes. She's 2 years elder, what do you expect.. And when i get too angry and can't fight her points, i'd hit her. Of course, she'd report it to my mom and i'd get lectured, sometimes even punished. My parents have this rule, we can never hurt each other physically. What they didn't think of was, words that could hurt us mentally. They don't know the power of words. They don't know how deep a person can get hurt with words. The power of words are actually much stronger than physical contact. A person can get hurt by another person even if it means they're on different sides of the Earth. When you're physically hurt, you feel the pain on your skin, on your wounds, but the pain goes away as time passes by but when you're hurt by words, you feel pain everywhere, the kind of pain that you can't lick on it to make it feel better, the wound stays in a place so deep that you can't reach but it'll always hurt to remind you of its existance and the only solution to that is your mind. You are the only solution to make yourself feel better. But no matter how strong you are, it'll still be there. It's like an ugly scar which'll still hurt. Words have a greater power than all of us. Parents, educate your children and make sure they never abuse that.

Inez.

Birthday Surprise!

We were sitting at Mikko's living room, watching Finding Nemo. Mikko came up and told us to stand up. She said her maid wants to sweep the floor. "Where is she then?" was what running through my mind when everyone started clapping and singing to the birthday song. I clapped and sang along utterly unsure of what was going on. I tried asking whose birthday it was but all they did was ignore me. Then JinIng, JiaHui and LiWei came up with a candle lit chocolate cake in their hands. It was only when they were walking towards me that i realized the celebration was MY birthday. I believe my face was stunned. My reaction nerve wasn't working. Caught off guard, I wasn't sure of how to react so I just stood there with my goofy smile and surprised look. I definitely didn't see that coming. It was truly a surprise and i absolutely loved it! I had so much fun today and I have the girls to thank for. I love them to bits! :)


Birthday girl ;)

 

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone !

Howdy y'all ;) It's Thanksgiving ! I'm grateful for everything that i have and will have in the future.

Here's what i'm grateful for :
~ I'm finally sitting for SPM !
~ 3 subjects are done and over with.
~ My birthday's next Monday !
~ Tuition classes end next week !
~ Downloaded Easy A
~ Joined People's Choice and voted too ;)
~ SPM's gonna be over soon !!

Oh yeah, i'm grateful for the simple stuff. Life IS simple ;)
I stumbled upon Ian Somerhalder's foundation webpage. His birthday wish is for people to come together and raise funds to support projects concerning our Planet. For all of you out there who are capable of giving, go on ahead and check it out. It is Thanksgiving afterall ! Enjoy your stuffed turkey now :)

http://www.isfoundation.com/

Inez.

Let's Not Overthink It Shall We ?

Today, one of my classmates said something that bugged me -I'm sorry but i'm not a gentleman so don't expect me to help you. Well, not of that exact context but that's what he meant. Before this, he wrote on his status that he thinks the world's unfair. He wonders about the existenece of a gentlegirl instead of a gentleman. He thinks that it's unfair that boys are always the ones who tolerate and give in to girls. Well, i'm not gonna be the judge of this but if we were to lay every single unfairness between boys and girls, i think we're even. It's not easy being a boy, neither it is easy being a girl. Well it's not easy being anything !

My point is, why do we need to differentiate and label ourselves? Whether you are a gentleman or not, it's up to you to decide. What other people want to think is out of our control. Instead of complaining or trying to be the perfect gentleman, why can't we just let things be simple and help each other as friends? Why do we have to label ourselves in a way that'll make everything so complicated?

I guess that's jsut the norm of us human minds. We tend to overthink every single detail and confuse everyone including ourselves. We just can't be simple.

Inez.