Stepping Into 2011

2011 was just 3 hours away when i got the news that one of my non blood-related grandaunt has passed on to the other side. She didn't make it to witness 2011 happen. She's now in a better place. A place with no pain, no sadness, no suffering, just pure happiness and peace. May she rest in peace. Happy new year Chellah mama.. Happy new year everyone :)

Inez.

No pressure.. Really ?

Boy : Marry me? 
Girl : Well, this is all so sudden, i need some time to think it over.
Boy : Hey, hey, don't worry. NO PRESSURE. I'LL WAIT FOR YOU AS LONG AS YOU WANT.

AS IF THERE WON'T BE ANY PRESSURE AFTER THE I'LL-WAIT-FOR YOU CRAP!
Yes, you say that there won't be any pressure but then knowing that you'll be waiting, IT GIVES A HELL LOT OF PRESSURE. Who would take their time, really take their time to think, consider all of the options and possibilities with peace of mind when they know that there is someone out there, waiting and hoping to be with you. No one could really do that unless you're a heartless evil jackass. So come on, if you don't wanna put pressure on that particular person, don't say that ! I know you people are eager but i haven't came up with something perfectly suitable to say in that sorta situation so before i do, you can try saying ~

1. Sure thing sweets. Take all the time you need.
2. Don't worry about it. What's important is you take your time.
3. Okay, i want you to relax and think about the future, YOUR future before you decide.

There ya go. You've got 3 options to twist and turn about. All better that the i'll-wait-for-you bugger.

Inez.

 

Cheers to all the seventeens out there!

The VIPs of my life.

Inez.

Tyler's Birthday at Monte's !

Phew ~ Finally a post with pictures ! We went to Monte's to celebrate Tyler's birthday :)

The food is darn good ! I strongly recommend Monte's ! ;)

 This is the cake KarYee *with Amanda's help* baked for Tyler. See the initial ;)

 Tyler giving a toast.

 Bottoms up !

 The boys flexing their biceps *rolls eyes

 This is what happens when you man up and down a mug full of beer with an empty stomach.

*Bored face

Inez.

The Power Of Words

When I was younger, I would always lose quarreling with my sister. She's the one with the good vocab and strong disputes. She's 2 years elder, what do you expect.. And when i get too angry and can't fight her points, i'd hit her. Of course, she'd report it to my mom and i'd get lectured, sometimes even punished. My parents have this rule, we can never hurt each other physically. What they didn't think of was, words that could hurt us mentally. They don't know the power of words. They don't know how deep a person can get hurt with words. The power of words are actually much stronger than physical contact. A person can get hurt by another person even if it means they're on different sides of the Earth. When you're physically hurt, you feel the pain on your skin, on your wounds, but the pain goes away as time passes by but when you're hurt by words, you feel pain everywhere, the kind of pain that you can't lick on it to make it feel better, the wound stays in a place so deep that you can't reach but it'll always hurt to remind you of its existance and the only solution to that is your mind. You are the only solution to make yourself feel better. But no matter how strong you are, it'll still be there. It's like an ugly scar which'll still hurt. Words have a greater power than all of us. Parents, educate your children and make sure they never abuse that.

Inez.